As
I was talking with a friend here about my internship I told him that it was
hard to teach the younger children. Before I was able to explain how the
children don’t pay attention or how they talk and yell when they are not
supposed to or how they eat their snack during class, he told me, “You need to
love the children more.” Instead of defending myself I thought about what he
said.
I realized that when I was frustrated it was
mainly because I wasn’t being patient enough with the children. As I thought to
myself I was reminded that these kids were six and seven years old. It was
unrealistic for me to expect them to be perfectly obedient during class and to
learn everything I wanted to teach them the first time that I taught it.
I thought about what it meant to love the kids
I was teaching. In summary it mainly entailed thinking of them as people rather
than objects. I realized that I needed to put myself in their place and
consider how I would feel, or imagine one of my nieces or nephews that is the
same age as the child at hand.
As I continued
teaching I made more of an effort to love the kids. When I would feel myself
beginning to be frustrated I would think to myself, “Love this kid.” As I did I
didn’t always think about what the child was doing wrong, but what I might
change to help the child. It has been a really fun experience. I have noticed
that when I focus on teaching as much material as I can, I am ineffective and
the students do not retain what I am teaching. On the contrary, when I try to
help each student have a positive experience, they seem to retain what I am
teaching. Consciously trying to have more love for the children has helped me
be happier and less stressed at work and has made the kids happier as well.








